My honey gives me that look often, but only when he's not partaking. He doesn't like that I do it everyday. However he's more fond of alcohol so when he gets judgemental on me I always ask him how he feels the next morning after drinking, and remind him how great I feel after a night of fun. He always thinks he's got one over on me cuz drinking is LEGAL, but I have to remind him that one's a poison, and one's an herb, and you know that for sure the morning after. Whether its legal or not doesn't change that fact.

But I know if I had to quit smoking for whatever reason and my honey did it front of me knowing that I want to do it, but I CAN'T, I'd probably be pretty resentful of him for being so insensitive. So, maybe just be a little more understanding that he's not quitting because he's "above it", he's quitting for a good reason, and probably doesn't want that downplayed as unimportant or silly by his partner. I'm not saying to quit smoking, but maybe do it outside where factors like the smell and the visual aren't right in front of his nose mocking him, you know? He probably has to give the eye or show disapproval of some sort to be able to carry out his decision not to smoke more easily.

Anyway, best of luck!
Ousted Reviewed by Ousted on . Damn, my husband... You know, I got some great stuff...and my husband is a pretty straight-laced, responsible guy. By no means stuffy, but he's definitely the thinker and common-sense one in the marriage (what can I say...I'm a Gemini!!). So, when he smokes, it's hysterical. He starts trying to write these shit-ass songs, and rambles on and stuff--we have a blast. Now he won't smoke with me anymore--except on rare occasions. And he just gives me this "look" when I smoke--you know, that "shame on you" Rating: 5