Quote Originally Posted by IrieAllie
You know, I got some great stuff...and my husband is a pretty straight-laced, responsible guy. By no means stuffy, but he's definitely the thinker and common-sense one in the marriage (what can I say...I'm a Gemini!!). So, when he smokes, it's hysterical. He starts trying to write these shit-ass songs, and rambles on and stuff--we have a blast. Now he won't smoke with me anymore--except on rare occasions. And he just gives me this "look" when I smoke--you know, that "shame on you" look...which is COMPLETELY magnified when I'm high. Problem is, I ENJOY smoking....I relax, forget about all the daily crap, and sleep like a baby. But he acts like I am just the biggest bitch for doing it around him--he says "It's no fun when you're stoned and I'm not..." So SMOKE, right? Hell no, he just guilts me out about it. I could just smoke when he's not around, but he's just so much fun when he smokes. There's nothing better than watching him loosen up and have a good time, so I have to wonder why the hell he won't do it. To me, it's a freaking PLANT that has these wonderful properties and makes you feel great. I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with it--if alcohol is legal--and it alters your personality (not always for the better, unlike weed), what's the harm? I need to get him loosened up here....any suggestions???? By the way, his company is implementing their drug-testing policy this fall, so his time is running out....
Have you expressed your feelings to him about this? Is he approachable?

Jeez, that guilt thing must be a total high killer. My husband smokes like a chimney. We have good times together when we're both blazin. My only little complaint is that he TALKS and talks. Annoying. But he can't help it. lol. dumbass.