Damn, my husband...

[IrieAllie]

You know, I got some great stuff...and my husband is a pretty straight-laced, responsible guy. By no means stuffy, but he's definitely the thinker and common-sense one in the marriage (what can I say...I'm a Gemini!!). So, when he smokes, it's hysterical. He starts trying to write these shit-ass songs, and rambles on and stuff--we have a blast. Now he won't smoke with me anymore--except on rare occasions. And he just gives me this "look" when I smoke--you know, that "shame on you" look...which is COMPLETELY magnified when I'm high. Problem is, I ENJOY smoking....I relax, forget about all the daily crap, and sleep like a baby. But he acts like I am just the biggest bitch for doing it around him--he says "It's no fun when you're stoned and I'm not..." So SMOKE, right? Hell no, he just guilts me out about it. I could just smoke when he's not around, but he's just so much fun when he smokes. There's nothing better than watching him loosen up and have a good time, so I have to wonder why the hell he won't do it. To me, it's a freaking PLANT that has these wonderful properties and makes you feel great. I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with it--if alcohol is legal--and it alters your personality (not always for the better, unlike weed), what's the harm? I need to get him loosened up here....any suggestions???? By the way, his company is implementing their drug-testing policy this fall, so his time is running out....

IrieAllie Reviewed by IrieAllie on 06-28-2005. Damn, my husband... You know, I got some great stuff...and my husband is a pretty straight-laced, responsible guy. By no means stuffy, but he's definitely the thinker and common-sense one in the marriage (what can I say...I'm a Gemini!!). So, when he smokes, it's hysterical. He starts trying to write these shit-ass songs, and rambles on and stuff--we have a blast. Now he won't smoke with me anymore--except on rare occasions. And he just gives me this "look" when I smoke--you know, that "shame on you" Rating: 5

[maryjanemama]

Oy, is he an Earth sign? Mine's a Capricorn and I'm a Sagittarius and we agree on NOTHING. Mr. Mary goes through phases like this, as well, right now he's on a non smoking kick. He feels that should apply to me, too.... I feel he should kiss my ass, toke, and relax (for once in his life!!).

Do you have any girlfriends you can smoke with instead? I'm happy to smoke by myself, but, that's just me. Mr. Mary never smokes and hangs out, he smokes and goes back to work or reads books about tractors. Too bad you weren't still in PA, Irie, we could smoke up together, and leave the anal men to their own devices.

[Lulu]

Oh not both you too aswell

very Aquarius(air) married to an extreme Virgo(earth) I know exactly what
you're both talking about - unfortunately

It's the look....like he was speaking to an unruly, not too bright child that
drives me mental

[IrieAllie]

MJ,

We were just in PA over the weekend...we've decided that we need to move back! We've done the moving thing--5 states in 5 years--and I am DONE. Get me back to PA, and I'm not leaving! So, I am sure that answers the questions about having girlfriends to smoke with--we never live anywhere long enough to know people! All my friends that I've had since forever are pretty much still in PA. The ONLY one of them tha would smoke with me lives in Jersey Growing up, I always had more guy friends than girl friends--so I've got my "select" group of long-time friends, who I get to see a few times a year....bummer!

Mr. Allie is a Leo--so he's bossy, difficult, has to have control of everything. Still trying to figure out how in the hell we ended up together! I am a live in the moment, fly by the seat of my pants kinda gal--hate PLANS...just like to go with the flow. With all the really bad stuff that i used to do, he should be thrilled that I am quite happy smoking up on the deck, and laughing my ass off. (I LOVE to laugh so hard, I feel like I am going to pee my pants!!!! LOL).

So I guess you can relate to my dilemma--"If I don't want to do it, no one should...." I freaking HATE that attitude. I hate any kind of negative attitude....don't like people trying to bring me down, and that's what he's doing...bastard!!!!

[IrieAllie]

Oh Lulu, you too???????? Yes, that LOOK. I hate that look. Every time he does it, I feel like a 5 year old that just got caught scribbling on the walls. Problem is, when I'm stoned, I just start in on him..."You need to lighten up, you freaking hillbilly." LOL He's a farm boy...so I always seem to bring up the hillbilly thing when he gives me attitude! Don't get me wrong, my goal is to buy a huge chunk of land, build my dream house, get a few horses, and live happy ever after....but the fact remains...I am married to a hillbilly. LOL

I mean, we've been together for 13 years....yet these attitude binges he goes on never cease to piss me off! What I need is to have my girls here--send Mr. Allie and the kids away, and just hang on the deck for a weekend, drinking margaritas and getting stoned. Just can't get any better!!!!

[The Student]

Hello,

Don't let these confused men discourage any of you ganga goddesses!

My lady and I have been living together for 6 yrs now. In all that time she has taken one hit of herb.

She has never said one thing to me about my smoking, and in the last year growing.

Smoking is certainly not her gig, but she knows that I love it and that is that.

I am not sure about our signs or anything, I am a Leo and her birthday is the 18th of November.

Take care

Peace

[Lulu]

Hello,

Don't let these confused men discourage any of you ganga goddesses!

My lady and I have been living together for 6 yrs now. In all that time she has taken one hit of herb.

She has never said one thing to me about my smoking, and in the last year growing.

Smoking is certainly not her gig, but she knows that I love it and that is that.

I am not sure about our signs or anything, I am a Leo and her birthday is the 18th of November.

Take care

Peace

http://www.starlightastrology.com/lovers.htm

Look it up

[Breukelen advocaat]

The sign I was born under? ROOM FOR RENT

[IrieAllie]

Well, surprisingly we are VERY compatible....which is interesting, because I got him stoned just last night! LOL Made me just as happy as anything....but who knows when that'll happen again! Thanks for letting me vent, guys and dolls....

[purpledrummer1]

You know, I got some great stuff...and my husband is a pretty straight-laced, responsible guy. By no means stuffy, but he's definitely the thinker and common-sense one in the marriage (what can I say...I'm a Gemini!!). So, when he smokes, it's hysterical. He starts trying to write these shit-ass songs, and rambles on and stuff--we have a blast. Now he won't smoke with me anymore--except on rare occasions. And he just gives me this "look" when I smoke--you know, that "shame on you" look...which is COMPLETELY magnified when I'm high. Problem is, I ENJOY smoking....I relax, forget about all the daily crap, and sleep like a baby. But he acts like I am just the biggest bitch for doing it around him--he says "It's no fun when you're stoned and I'm not..." So SMOKE, right? Hell no, he just guilts me out about it. I could just smoke when he's not around, but he's just so much fun when he smokes. There's nothing better than watching him loosen up and have a good time, so I have to wonder why the hell he won't do it. To me, it's a freaking PLANT that has these wonderful properties and makes you feel great. I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with it--if alcohol is legal--and it alters your personality (not always for the better, unlike weed), what's the harm? I need to get him loosened up here....any suggestions???? By the way, his company is implementing their drug-testing policy this fall, so his time is running out....

Have you expressed your feelings to him about this? Is he approachable?

Jeez, that guilt thing must be a total high killer. My husband smokes like a chimney. We have good times together when we're both blazin. My only little complaint is that he TALKS and talks. Annoying. But he can't help it. lol. dumbass.