Quote Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry
I agree. I am the type to ask, so I would suggest you ask, respectfully.
please do not ask what's the deal with your eyes.

if you simply MUST say something, do it in the most tactful gentle way possible. I have a friend with a scar on his forehead, (looks like he was in a fight or accident) he calls it his intelligence meter. Ignorant people will ask "what the hell happened to you???" right off and stare open mouthed. Seems like the smarter they are, the less likely they are to mention it, or act like there is anything wrong whatsoever according to him. And he is a smart dude so I would vote for the say nothing stare at his nose or look elsewhere camp. Until you know him well enough to be rude.