i thought i had that problem once, found out that i must not have been sexualy attracted to her. because my current lady is fucking hot, loves talkin dirty, dresses in thoughs shorts that make you go . DAMN i love her. NO PROBLEM climaxin here on both fronts. she even tells her freinds, they look at me funny. i'm a kind shy dude, so i got RED when her best freind asked me what i was doing to her, and could i teach it to her boyfreind. try drinking some ginko tea, or thoughs snapple elementals. oh yah, stop thinking about not finishing, just go with the flow. O o