Slow To Cum. Help from anyone knowledgable?

[Encatuse]

I'm not much for posting my personal problems on a cannabis forum, especially my sexual ones, but I couldn't find much on google about it so here I am. If you're easily grossed out or don't want to know about my sexual problems, go ahead and leave now.

I used to cum pretty quickly, but these days it takes ALOT of effort to finish the job. I was girlfriendless for a while, so I didn't take notice. But, now I've got people trying to make my penis cum again, and I feel quite guilt-ridden when it takes sooooo long.

Also, the movement has to be pretty quick. I've never been capable of finishing from oral sex alone ((except once, with one chick who hasn't been able to do it again)) but now I definately can't. I don't even feel like I'm coming close to finishing now unless it's from a hand or a vagina.

I'm currently on Depakote for Bi-polar. I've used a variety of drugs, including disassociatives which I've heard can mess up proper penis functioning but currently I haven't used any in 2 weeks. I masturbate once or twice a day, but on days where I'm going to be possibly ejaculating with the help of others I don't at all.

So, is there anything I can do that'll make me finish faster and/or with less effort? Any advice is appreciated.

Encatuse Reviewed by Encatuse on 06-27-2005. Slow To Cum. Help from anyone knowledgable? I'm not much for posting my personal problems on a cannabis forum, especially my sexual ones, but I couldn't find much on google about it so here I am. If you're easily grossed out or don't want to know about my sexual problems, go ahead and leave now. I used to cum pretty quickly, but these days it takes ALOT of effort to finish the job. I was girlfriendless for a while, so I didn't take notice. But, now I've got people trying to make my penis cum again, and I feel quite guilt-ridden Rating: 5

[Juggalotus]

why would u want to...?

[spliffstar22]

Be grateful. Some guys can't even stay hard for 2 minutes....

[muncheemama]

yeah, how long are we talking here? an hour or 5 ? you shouldnt feel guilty that it takes too long, as that probably adds to the anxiety, thus not allowing you to perform in the way you would like to. chill out and get into it.. most guys have to distract themselves with baseball, this way you can enjoy yourself.

[Nullific]

Do heroin a couple days in a row, the day after you should be much more sensitive.

[Encatuse]

Do heroin a couple days in a row, the day after you should be much more sensitive.

I tried this and I just ended up getting addicted to heroin. V.V Thanks for nothing Null. Now I'm a slow cummer and a junkie.

But honestly, why would I want to cum faster? Because in the old days I could knock out 3 loads in a long session with my lady. Now I can barely get one off, especially since we aren't yet having sex. She has to put alot of effort into making me cum. ((I really hate going into detail about this stuff with random people, but I'm going to anyway))

It takes alot of pressure... like really jerkin on it hard and fast. So most of the time I end up having to do it myself until the very end when she takes over, because she's incapable of doing it that hard/fast unless I grip over her hand.

Time wise, if there's been a good amount of foreplay and stuff ((good amount = one-two hours)) it'll take me about 20-30 minutes of rhythmic, tight gripped, fast movement to cum.

Any solutions not involving heroin? I'm running out of money for it and I've already started pawning my belongings for more.

[Nullific]

One of the physical effects of heroin is difficulty ejaculating, so following a couple days of use though not nearly enough for physical withdrawals to develop will likely lead to a more premature ejaculation.

If you don't love your girl enough to do heroin and help you cum faster then you know what thats your problem.

As an alternative you could discuss with your doctor the problems you are having with your wang and perhaps switch to a medication with less incidence of side effects such as Trileptal.

[dark0ne]

i thought i had that problem once, found out that i must not have been sexualy attracted to her. because my current lady is fucking hot, loves talkin dirty, dresses in thoughs shorts that make you go . DAMN i love her. NO PROBLEM climaxin here on both fronts. she even tells her freinds, they look at me funny. i'm a kind shy dude, so i got RED when her best freind asked me what i was doing to her, and could i teach it to her boyfreind. try drinking some ginko tea, or thoughs snapple elementals. oh yah, stop thinking about not finishing, just go with the flow. O o

[jacquelyne]

thats fucking silly

Do heroin a couple days in a row, the day after you should be much more sensitive.

[jacquelyne]

Now im all sidetracked but screw the heroin im sure your not that stupid anyways u cleverer than that for sure.What about watching porn while having sex ? maybe would help.UMMM is it her at all something maybe you dont find attractive i dont know or maybe she dosent excite u enough like what if you got her talikng dirty ??? Im thinking hard here lol.What about umm if she masturbated for you or something to get u all hot before u even start or what if u dressed like a woman and imagined u were having lesbo sex ?? Sorry i probably havent helped much because i dont know what u like but if u have any fetishes or whatever just work on those and try get her to play along and just do whatever makes you squirt quickest lol