I find after going through rough times there is always something to be learned from it and although they appear bad at the time youll look back on it as an experience that was neccessary in becoming who you are. If we had everything go our way in life then we would be ignorant and clueless of the real world. Don't worry about this guy, if you were able to pick up a guy originally then chances are you are going to find another one equally as good if not better.