I want this girl, but she needs somthing first, HELP!

[Juggalotus]

Ok, I've been trying to go out with her for like 5 months now but each time she told me no, yet we still hang out and shes cool with me. Now this time she gave me somthing to work with, she said that I need to 'Do or say somthing" before she will say yes, but she wont tell me what it is...Can some one offer up some advice on this?

Juggalotus Reviewed by Juggalotus on 06-25-2005. I want this girl, but she needs somthing first, HELP! Ok, I've been trying to go out with her for like 5 months now but each time she told me no, yet we still hang out and shes cool with me. Now this time she gave me somthing to work with, she said that I need to 'Do or say somthing" before she will say yes, but she wont tell me what it is...Can some one offer up some advice on this? Rating: 5

[muncheemama]

sounds like shes playing head games with you! send her flowers and tell her shes beautiful....might work

[Satovan]

Maybe you need to slap her.

[maryjanemama]

Hhhmmm....that could be just about anything. I know what you need to do, and that's run in the opposite direction of her. She's playing head games already and you two aren't even dating, yet. You'll never ever be able to please this type of girl and she'll always have an eye out for the next best thing. If she needs someone to train to jump through hoops for her, let her buy a puppy.

[henrypj]

just say to her to tell you if she wants you or not straight and stop messin u around

[Cheery Cherry]

Oh, sounds dangerous to me. She's a little confused and a bit controlling. She's testing you. To see if you'll say or come up with something she'd want or hear..if you can get this right, she'll test you on something else regarding your relationship with her.

I could be wrong though...

[slipknotpsycho]

i just wouldn't mess with her at all.....sounds to me she's either trying to play games or she's just trying to get you off her back (since you did say you've asked her repeatedly) could be telling you that to keep you busy.

[Juggalotus]

This is my friend using my account....He is having major trouble. and this girl isnt 'playin head games' shes dead hard serious that he needs to "do or say" somthing to her, before she WILL say yes. To me...Hes like flipping out trying to think, and this chick is WELL worth it...Shes not a slut or whore...junkie...nothin of the sort, shes just a major christian with a personality and looks like a model. And she does obviously care for him, u can tell it...she takes him with her family and shit...Hes only asked her twice, and the two other times she had LEGIT reasoning...I'm confused as he is and ive been trying to help him...I couldnt, so I came to this community.

[slipknotpsycho]

shes just a major christian with a personality and looks like a model.

imo that's the problem right there.....and no one here will be able to tell you what this girl wants to hear cuz there is no two people that are the same ....i don't know tell him to say he don't want sex he just wants a solid long term realitionship with someone he cares for which is her...only thing i can think of

[NoosaHeads]

I think she wants you to go out on a limb and express your feelings for her.
defenetly a sticky situation seeming she's already declined your offer 5 times..
be careful man she's a Head fuck...