Thats all fine and well.What if you did not trust or know the husband ? Also what if the husband would only accept a girl child and would be very very dissapointed if they had a boy would you find that strange or no ? That a person could be so picky in the gender they wanted.With all this IVF can they choose the gender or whats the go ? If you cant have children and want one so desperatley would a person really care what gender it is ? and if that is the case the husband does not deserve a child do you agree or not ?