Would you ?

[jacquelyne]

If you had a sister who was approx 40 and could not have a child with her husband because her eggs were no good because of he age if you were a female and her sister and she asked for some of your eggs to have IVF would you help her ?
just say the woman already has a teenager but its her husbands first child.I mean it would be her sisters egg mixed with her own husbands sperm to create a child.What if she said that she didnt want a donors eggs because they are not from the same gene pool and she wants a child that could pass as her own.Also the person who donates has to spend 60 hrs having treatment etc to stimulate the ovaries and bring on about 20 eggs in one go all to be collected and frozen and theres a chance the donor may become infertile because of the whole procedure and they are like alot younger and would like more kids themself.When the child grows up she wouldnt want the child to know the truth and let the baby never know the truth.How do you think the donor would feel seeing her sister give birth to her own child even though they did not actually go through the 9 mths.Also what about both the sisters in the future could the handle it or would there be jelousy and what if the child looked exactly like the donor sister and everyone said that OOOH the baby looks so much like her aunt as a child im sure that would upset the birth mother there really could be so many complications.Any thoughts on that anyone.Dont fuck around please this is a serious subject i would like to know what peoples thoughts are about this.

jacquelyne Reviewed by jacquelyne on 06-22-2005. Would you ? If you had a sister who was approx 40 and could not have a child with her husband because her eggs were no good because of he age if you were a female and her sister and she asked for some of your eggs to have IVF would you help her ? just say the woman already has a teenager but its her husbands first child.I mean it would be her sisters egg mixed with her own husbands sperm to create a child.What if she said that she didnt want a donors eggs because they are not from the same gene pool and Rating: 5

[st0n3r]

urs goin through this problem aren't you?

[NoosaHeads]

Put all the uncomfortable thoughts aside and deal with the situations as they arrise.

I think Its one of the Most beautiful gifts you could give.
It shows a total act of selflesness.
and I truley admire that...

[jacquelyne]

How exactly would a person put those thoughts aside.Should a person do it because they love there only sister even though they are very very opposite in nature and know that everytime they looked at the child they would feel so sad in there own heart and could never say a word to anyone about it.

[ScarlettCrush]

you have to stop thinking of it as "yours" because the only thing that is yours is the egg. It isn't a person inside you, it isn't even a person yet. If you where donating a kidney would you still consider it yours even if it is another body working fine?
might stop thinking of yourself and more of the people you love. How much joy this would bring them. I could get over myself for that. I also think it is a beautiful and selfless gift.

[its me guys]

people say my oldest son looks like he's my sisters kid all the time, and you know what? HE'S NOT!! kids don't think like that, first of all, and just because you can BIRTH a baby does not mean you can call it yours, it wouldn't be yours, it would be her child to raise. and you should look at the child like you helped make a miracle, and you done it because you have love for your sister.......do you think that she would do it for you? i don't know you, and i think that if she could, she would. you are being selfish......help your sister out.

[jacquelyne]

Thats all fine and well.What if you did not trust or know the husband ? Also what if the husband would only accept a girl child and would be very very dissapointed if they had a boy would you find that strange or no ? That a person could be so picky in the gender they wanted.With all this IVF can they choose the gender or whats the go ? If you cant have children and want one so desperatley would a person really care what gender it is ? and if that is the case the husband does not deserve a child do you agree or not ?

[Ozskyz]

i cant have kids myself so can kind of see both sides here. I think to have a baby for a husband just because he wants one is not the right reasons to bring a child into this world its should be made of love for love not just because he feels he should have a girl thats just wrong should not matter what sex the child is should be hoping for a heathly happy one no matter the sex if love is there no one really worries about the sex and to say he will not want a boy well that in gods hands and if it doesnt work does that mean if she ends up with a boy will he not love her anymore or the child what the point of doing it if he only want one kind of child its not for love is it. Dont do it he doesnt see the whole point of having kids which is to bring more love and careing into your life it cant be one sided will never last in this big hard world thats for sure.

[Kid Dynamite]

have they considered adoption? I know it sounds like pandering to a stupid demand, but if they adopted at least they could choose the gender of the child and the husband would be happy.

[BUZz UK]

if i had a brother, i wouldn't mind giving him some sperm...not directly though...