i agree with lulu 100%. I think that you have seen and been through alot more than most 14 year olds. this is a realy important time for you. you need to look at yourself right now and figure out what you want in life. Love is a wonderful thing but it can also cause a lot of pain. so before you get in a whole lot deeper, maybe you should sit down with him and ask him if he thinks that he can quit doing drugs to be with you. tell him that you are trying to make postive changes in your life and you can't be with someone who isn't going to be supportive. if he says that he can't then tell him that youare sorry you do care about him but your first priority is to yourself and your future. you can't make people change. believe me i know, i tried and ended up getting into drugs a whole deeper than just pot and alcohol. I think that you are smart enough to have gotten this far in thinking yourself but because of your feelings for this guy have decided that someone elses advice may lead to youand him being together, like i said before been there done that. you know in your heart what is best for you just listen.

How similar are your backgrounds? I am just wondering because he may represent to you the familar, what you had before rehab. I am sure that all this must have been scary for you. going to rehab must have been hard since all the things that you and your family has known aren't there, could this guy be a gate to the world that you may not miss but that you are surely accostomed to?
just some food for thought. no one but you can make these choices. I hope that you will find peace in what ever you decide to do. and if not then you learned a very valuable lesson. i wish you the best.
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