The dress is a big part of the wedding no doubt. The one you have may not be the exact way you want it, but it is nice. They should be able to let the top out with little trouble. That said, the wedding is not just about the dress as you know. When you look back at your wedding later in life, the dress issue will be a funny story and will be a distant memory. Good Luck. P.S. Do not take it out on huddy to be. lol