I think you look beautiful. It might be a little tight around the boobies ask her if there is anything she can do about that because you donâ??t want to be uncomfortable on your big day. I like the bustle but I would probably like the one you want too. The key phrase here is what YOU wantâ?¦.face it, sheâ??s not doing this for free and she is not your friend so make her give you what you wantâ?¦..after all your paying. But donâ??t stress outâ?¦ think about what this ceremony means to your heart and try not to worry about the ceremony itself.