Quote Originally Posted by IrieAllie
mjm,

I know EXACTLY what you mean. We'll be married 9 years in August. He leaves at 6:30 am, and if I am LUCKY, he's home by 5:30-6...at which time the kids attack him while I get dinner ready. After dinner, it's outside to work as well. Same evening for us as for you 2....

Moving around all the time has really left us with NO options for sitters, as we aren't anywhere long enough to get to know anybody. We try and get out on a "date" if we are lucky--maybe once a month at best. Our jamaica trip in March was our first together, EVER! (Unless you count going on a honeymoon to an amusement park a vacation!!! LOL). Kiddos are getting older, and we'll have our time together at some point, I guess. RIGHT??? TELL ME I'M RIGHT!!!! LOL

You ARE Right .... I've finally got both kids in college (dorms) and there is now plenty of time together. Lots of spur-of-the-moment dates (movies, dinner, just driving). Last September, we went to Italy for 10 days while the kids were in school. And we're back to LOUD SEX !!! LOUD SEX is the best !!! LOL.

It's easy to get caught up in work, kids, house and relatives at the expense of your own fun. It's not forever, but at times it seems that way.