Hellooooooo Cafe People!

[IrieAllie]

You ARE Right .... I've finally got both kids in college (dorms) and there is now plenty of time together. Lots of spur-of-the-moment dates (movies, dinner, just driving). Last September, we went to Italy for 10 days while the kids were in school. And we're back to LOUD SEX !!! LOUD SEX is the best !!! LOL.

It's easy to get caught up in work, kids, house and relatives at the expense of your own fun. It's not forever, but at times it seems that way.

Loud sex!!!! Wow, I can't wait You mean there WILL come a day when we won't have to tell kids that we "have to go make an important phone call"? LOL My mom has asked if I thought the kids would go stay at her house for a week, with no problems (they are 6 & 4 1/2). Well, I know I don't have any problems with that. A week of weed AND loud sex???? Count me in!

[NowhereMan]

Loud sex!!!! Wow, I can't wait You mean there WILL come a day when we won't have to tell kids that we "have to go make an important phone call"? LOL My mom has asked if I thought the kids would go stay at her house for a week, with no problems (they are 6 & 4 1/2). Well, I know I don't have any problems with that. A week of weed AND loud sex???? Count me in!

sure as hell nothing wrong with loud sex
if your the one having the sex
but must admit
i hate hearing it when others do it
so i assume they dont wanna here me iether
agian wait rewind
maybe something wrong with loud sex if your alone
lol maybe
just maybe
and hell yes i hope there is some FUNTIME in the future
they dam sure better be or im gonna smak my way to hell in the hereafter if there is a hereafter
all the bills and deals, kids and pills and crap we parents put up with

if u manage to help get your kid thru high school without a police record or death wish or gang tattooes or and they dont hate your every word
congraduations and i do believe
YOU deserve the loud sex and weed time
peace

[maryjanemama]

Aahhhhhhhhh, I feel better now! God, I have a funny story but it's too explicit. Anyway, yeah, it'll get better I'm sure. LOUD SEX!!!! Woot woot. I guess loud sex is the whole reason we're all parents to begin with..........

Lol at "important phone call".

[earth girl]

mjm,
"Kiddos are getting older, and we'll have our time together at some point, I guess. RIGHT??? TELL ME I'M RIGHT!!!!" LOL

High Allie,
Hang in there! Until they are actually self-supporting, you are likely to be arranging your life to be what's 'best for the kids'. Fortunately there will come times during their teens when you'll be able to plan some quality spousal time. Just be sure you always have a Plan B!
After that there should be a lull until the grandkids start arriving! But they are always more fun than their parents were, because you can give them back, which is a little like getting back at them...lol.

As far as baby sitters go, try to get an in with the Scouts(boy or girl), or the 4H, or other teen service oranizations. It isn't like hiring a total stranger. These kids have backgrounds and references. In general they are intelligent and responsible.
Just don't go into shock when you learn what sitters are getting these days!
eg{8^D

[DonnieDarko]

Aahhhhhhhhh, I feel better now! God, I have a funny story but it's too explicit. Anyway, yeah, it'll get better I'm sure. LOUD SEX!!!! Woot woot. I guess loud sex is the whole reason we're all parents to begin with..........

Lol at "important phone call".

No such thing as too explicit in the Cafe Zone !!! What goes on in the Cafe, stays in the Cafe.