I have been noticing a trend in some of the baby/wedding shower invitations I've been getting. Instead of RSVP, they just add, "Send regrets only to Jane Doe 555-5555." I think that's because not many ppl RSVP anymore. I know you cannot do this for the actual wedding invitations, but, I think ppl are just becoming less likely to RSVP. Which really is inconsiderate when they leave you hanging especially with how expensive wedding receptions are.

To be completely honest, though, once I was guilty of not responding and the bride -to -be called me about 2 weeks before the wedding and asked if I was coming. I felt like a complete ass, afterwards, and have never done it since.