I think you're right Lit Up. You DO slow down and not have sex as often(not 4 all ppl just most) and it does make it just that much better when you do have sex, the longer you r 2gether...but i think that the newness of the person u r with also starts to wear off the longer u r 2gether and I'm not saying that like its a bad thing it just means u know eachother better.