I disagree. It doesn't have to be like that. My hubbie and I are together 14yrs, sure we've had our bad times but thankfully the sex is still great!

In the beginning you go outta your way to make each other happy, brekkie in bed, days spent in bed actually - but a relationship is like everything else it requires love and time spent on it to keep it alive.

Try not to say horrible shit to each other when you're arguing. When those words are out there you can't ever take them back and they'll stay in your and your partner's minds for a very long time.

But most of all keep it fun, surprise each other with nice stuff. Make time for each other away from everyone else. And try new stuff use your imagination............