My wife said I could sleep with someone else before our 10th anniversery.

[ProjectEight]

I agree, it aint worth the trouble in the long run for someone to do it.

Even if someone was ok with it, my paranoia that one day she would say, remember your 10th aniv. gift?

Or that tust or bond might crack and it would never be the same.

I would not do it.

It was a hypothetical question.

[DrGonzo]

go out and bang a guy.

confuse the fuck outta her

[looseends]

honey you may want to go on www.swingersboard.com.

[ProjectEight]

honey you may want to go on www.swingersboard.com.

Hell no

I'm not sharing my wife

[looseends]

oh...and i didn't vote because it's not my view to tell you what to do with you and your wife's sex life. one more thing to ponder...my husband and i have been swinging for over 10 years and if your wife is putting stipulations on your "gift" then what kind of gift is that? you two better talk this out thouroughly before something she thought would be cool might turn out sour. you don't want to wreck a good marriage outta this if you don't do your research. good luck honey

[looseends]

Hell no

I'm not sharing my wife

who said that i'm the one he's sharing?

[muncheemama]

sometimes women set guys up for failure....kind of like "do I look fat" or "is she prettier than me?" Its taken 5 years for my hubby to realize when im trying to trap him into something. Just give her kiss and tell her that you would never want to be with anyone else, besides, isnt that why you married her?

[rastabill89]

dont do it man.....

[kb70]

I say you add someone in to your collective mix..try a threesome?? If it goes awry it's bonding..if not it's double the fun!

[Dick Justice]

If you end up doing it (which I wouldn't) make sure it's a really ugly chick so she won't be jealous and you won't be tempted.

Then again, I never was good at relationships.