My wife said I could sleep with someone else before our 10th anniversery.

[maryjanemama]

Or maybe its just a trick to see if you'd actually go for it.

I agree, I can't help but think you are being set up for something. If this proposition is out of character for her, chances are if you do do it you will never live it down and it will thrown back in your face at every given oppurtunity. I made a huge mistake once and I still hear about it at least weekly (fucking Nick). Believe me, like Lulu said, it was not worth all of the pain and hurt I caused, nor was it worth having to listen to the shit I still get from Mr. Mary about it 5 years later.