My wife said I could sleep with someone else before our 10th anniversery.

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If your spouse tells you that your 10 anniversary gift is his/her permission to sleep with someone else, what would you do?

Your spouse sort of makes it into a bet that you cannot hook up with someone else as they smile. The deal is you can only do it once and the deal is off when the anniversary day gets here, you have 1 week to find a partner. He or she tells you their will be no weird feelings or guilt and you seem to think that all they want is to make you happy, sexually. Not that your spouse does not make you happy but before you were married, wasn't strange nice and part of the fun of being young?

So if we look at it they way your spouse thinks of the whole idea, would you do it?

You have a 100% ok from your spouse; can you do it and not feel weird in some way?

Ok, just a suggestion - instead of spending the week on a mission for 'strange'
put the energy into thinking up some wild and erotic way for the two of you
to celebrate your anniversary.

That whole going outside the relationship stuff is dodgey as hell, who knows
how either of you will feel afterwards
Why risk 10years for some random shag, it could be sooo not worth it.