irresponsible doesn't begin to cover it....
she lost her house key the first month we lived here...she still doesn't have a new one so every time she goes out I stay up until she gets in because I can't sleep with the doors unlocked and if I lock them I will just have to get up to let her in. The joy of the situation is whenever I say.."dude, you need to get a housekey" she says, yes next time WE are out WE should stop and get one. WTF is this "we" shit? It's like she thinks because we are roommates I am obligated to help her run around and take care of her shit.
I've helped her a lot, when we met she was a jobless refugee going from loser boyfriend to loser boyfriend and her own family wouldn't lend her money to help her get out of her situation. She didn't know how to dress, had zero manners and very little home training. Now all kinds of guys want to ask her out, she looks and feels a million times better and while this is not all due to me, I did help to pick her up and dust her off. Yet I get very little respect from her as a person, she has people over here until all hours of the night, and just...I dont even want to get into it, it's making me cry.