Scarlet this situation isn't getting any better and chances are it's going to get worse You are going to have to get her out before she drives you crazy altogether. She's a slob, she is completely irresponsible, she has no respect for you, your home or your possessions....why are you allowing her to stay

I know it's hard to be the big bad wolf but this person is seriously taking the piss - bigtime - you've been more than fair with her. But you really should think about giving her the boot, you're a nice woman surely you can find a better roomie than that. Do yourself a favour - cut out the dead wood, just my opinion. I really hope it all works out. She would do my head in