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If you ask for advice on a message board, you gotta expect all kinds of opinions (and judgements), so try not to take it personally. The fact that they took time out to write means that they care.

As someone above said "unprotected sex is fucking dumb". That is correct, but we've all done dumb things. I've been in the exact situation, pulling out (real smart) and having some bleeding and a late period. In my case no pregnancy. That was 30 years ago, and I wasn't ready.

I wish you the best, and you seem like a caring and responsible person so both of you will handle whatever comes. If this does turn out to be a false alarm, be sure to learn from the scare (I did).