Thanks psycho, sorry to flip out. I hope you understand.

To cheerycherry: I'm trying to be as supportive as possible. The advice from you guys (particularly Torog's to be honest) has made me think about whether my girlfriend is keeping her feelings on the subject from me. She said she was pro-life (in her words "i'm 100% pro-life") but when she asked me honestly what I thought I replied "we can't have a child." She understands where I am coming from but I think she may be stifling her feelings so as not to put pressure on me. My god this is making me feel bad. To add additional pressure, we are keeping it from our parents. We're both adults and simply don't want our folks to worry but should she need a termination there's no way I would be able to go with her . She has great friends who have been in similar situations and are helping her greatly. I assured her a million and one times everything would work out fine and we need to stay positive (no pun intended) but it's so much harder for her, I don't know if I really understand that yet. I feel like i'm just a useless, irresponsible bf but there's so little I can do right now.

Anyway, we already agreed. If the tests are positive, i'll have to make sure I know exactly how she feels. Chances are i'll hate myself for a very long time.

Tsk, what a lesson learned . This is NOT what a stoner needs!

Thanks again.