Quote Originally Posted by Button Basher
Wow, thanks for the GREAT advice. You guys are a big f*cking help.

Well guess what, I don't share your views on abortion and think it's perfectly acceptable. Does that mean i'm going to hell? No, because I don't believe in that sh*t either. We can't have a child now, we are too young and have too much planned. Neither of us WANT one, therefore we'd be raising an unwanted child that was never intended.

If I wanted your dumb opinions on the subject, I would have asked for them. I asked you not to pass judgment as your not in the same situation (I doubt you've ever been, it's easy to point fingers like your a f*cking saint) but oh well, you did. Why not f*ck off to the spiritual form if you need to vent some of that pro-life frustration. All i'm asking for is a little help under pressure. I'd never want my girlfriend to go through with something like this but we've both agreed it's the best option.

If it's positive, i'm just really f*cking unlucky because the only unprotected sex we had was 4-5 in-outs without a condom. I was always the one to say 'stop' in case this happened. If it IS positive, it's early enough to be a mass of chemicals, NOT a baby. We're thinking about the facts, not the xxx-xxxx morals, life is too short.

I'm in a position where i'd rather not hear some small-minded individuals bullshit ramblings on something that really isn't relevant to my situation. We've already agreed on what we need to do, don't have a hissy fit because I don't float your boat.

All i'm asking for is advice. Nothing more.
Howdy BB,

My advice,is to think about the consequences of having sex first,before gittin yerself into this kind of situation.

I hope that girlfriend realizes,that if she chooses to murder her child,then she can no longer be considered pro-life. My wife,had 2 abortions,before I met her and she still regrets terribly,doin so..do you really want your girlfriend to have a life-time of guilt and shame ? Also,abortions are not as nearly safe as you might think..there's evidence to show that long-term health problems could result and in the short-term,she could either hemmoragh to death or be unable to concieve again.

The greatest risk to you,is the harm that you're doing to your soul,your girlfriend has even more to lose and risk. Have you,in your small-mindness and narcism,considered the risks that your girlfriend faces ? She will carry the burden of her choice,for a life-time..will you stand beside her..or cut your losses and run away ?

Have a good one...