Girlfriend might be pregnant!

[Button Basher]

'Sup y'all.

I was with my girlfriend two nights ago. We were getting heavy under the duvet (as you do) when she started bleeding a tiny bit. Neither of us can explain why, her period isn't for another two weeks and we never have unprotected sex (although we have "warmed up" a few times as explained in one of my other sexy threads).

Is there a chance she could be pregnant? I'm apparently the most responsible BF she's ever had in the sense I make sure we always use protection, she used to have full blown unprotected sex with her others resulting in a few scares but nother major. Am I so unlucky that this has happened from 3-4 in-outs?

I looked on the net but can't pinpoint it. She's having a test Tuesday to find out for sure and we've agreed she should have an early termination of some kind if it's positive. The problem is we live miles and miles apart and she's pro-life (i'm pro-choice) and said she'd hate to go through with it without me even though it's the best idea for both of us.

Can anyone offer advice on this? Thanks you lot!

Button Basher Reviewed by Button Basher on 06-12-2005. Girlfriend might be pregnant! 'Sup y'all. I was with my girlfriend two nights ago. We were getting heavy under the duvet (as you do) when she started bleeding a tiny bit. Neither of us can explain why, her period isn't for another two weeks and we never have unprotected sex (although we have "warmed up" a few times as explained in one of my other sexy threads). Is there a chance she could be pregnant? I'm apparently the most responsible BF she's ever had in the sense I make sure we always use protection, she used to Rating: 5

[Mojavpa]

I dont get it. Shes pro-life but agreed to terminate the pregancy if shes pregnant?

[Button Basher]

Poor thing, I think she wants to be pro-life (she's a real hippy) but we really can't have a kid at this moment in time.

People don't pass judgment on this, your not the ones in the situation. I'd just appreciate some help if anyone can offer.

[AdidasZ21]

I would wait untill the time when she is supposed to be having her period and see if she has it...If she is late by more than 2 or 3 days...That's when you worry.

I've Had to go through this a few times lol

[Button Basher]

Well I can find out Tuesday . I just hate worrying, you should've seen me yesterday.

Apparently natural short bleeding can be a sign of pregnancy but by the looks of things it was me that brought it on (I won't go into details ).

[maryjanemama]

Apparently natural short bleeding can be a sign of pregnancy but by the looks of things it was me that brought it on (I won't go into details ).

Lol, Ok, big boy.

I think you're buggin for no reason, personally. Chill out and wait until she's actually late. No need getting yourself all worked up over nothing.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

"Warming up" without a condom actually *is* unprotected sex. She could be pregnant from that, but there are also many other reasons for breakthrough bleeding. Bleeding doesn't necessarily indicate pregnancy.

[PurplePotatoes]

Well, personally I'm pro-life. I don't believe in killing babies... and I don't specifically believe that babies are actually alive at that state when they're aborted. But I think if it's okay to do that, it's okay to kill a baby that isn't able to run away or say "no" yet. Because at that state... they really aren't anything but leeches, and aren't mature enough to really have memories, or have a concious existance. They sure as hell have emotions and feelings, but it's as big of a deal as a fetus. It sounds really fucked up, but just remember I'm PRO LIFE, and don't believe in abortion period. If you're lucky enough to have sex (because we all know it's great), then you should be able to take the responsibility of having a kid. IT'S SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN THAT WAY. You have sex, you have a kid. It's simple as adding two plus two. There should be no reason to worry about a pregnancy, if you have to drop out of school to support the kid, then do so! Put your life on hold so you can support the kid and care for him or her. Kids aren't supposed to be little monsters who ruin your life, you don't think cave women just killed their babies when they were tired of having it?

I'm also against divorce, unless you plan on staying single or getting remarried to that person. It's ridiculous how so many people are getting divorced... there was a time when these practices weren't acceptable, and now it's perfectly normal... what happened?!

[mellow mood]

im not pro anything. i just think in certain circumstances u have to do some chocies. some may be forced. if u really cant have a kid, the solution isnt hard to find

and by the way, unprotected relation is fuckin dumb. now assume your acts man

peace

[GfLoW]

I'm also Pro-Life and I think abortion should be illegal, cause God made a child and you're killing it. It's like comitting murder.

You made the choice of having unprotected sex and now you will face the consequences if your gf does become pregnent.