Loosends, I feel you sister!! Mine are 8 1/2, 5 1/2, and 2 and now it's summer vacation. I swear, 90% of the time I am yelling, waitressing, or refereeing. I love them but I need a day off, too. My husband wonders why I like to stay up late and I don't go to bed when he does. It's because when everyone else is asleep is the only time I am ever alone!!