My g/f and I both took our first hits at a party exactly one year ago. We got high together a number of times that summer. I went off to college and became a total pothead my freshman year, while she finished her senior year of high school without smoking more than about 3 times. We would smoke together a time or two each time I came home to visit, although she was always reluctant and never gave in to MJ's spell. For that time, she would say she hated weed whenever she was sober but would giggle like crazy when she was high and say she loved it. Now she's kicked weed, saying she doesn't like looking stoned (I showed her an unflattering picture of her stoned face), she doesn't like smelling like weed, and unfortunately all the immature loser high-school potheads have given her a bad impression of the drug. So now I just keep my smoking to myself and don't involve her, and we are both fine with that. To each his own, I say.