well me and my gf started smoking around the same time...i got her into it tho...lemme tell u she is like the biggest pothead now....sometimes i wish i never got her started...its not bad but i didnt wanna be the one to turn her into a head. But its alright its not like shes uncontrolable. She can take in bigger hits and hoold em in longer than me and DOESNT COUGH...it amazes me but thats why i love her. I think its great smoking with ur girl...and just talk to her man, she doesnt wanna she doesnt wanna