Have Big Problem need opinions

[Porkchop]

I dont think its the cheating for him as much as it is the lying.
If together she may or may not cheat but if you were always up front she should have been with you also.
However your a dude and to most dudes its ok to cheat but not for the girls as guys have some kinda ego trip.
Like thinking if your a better lover if your dick is bigger or nicer then his/thiers etc...
Well plain and simple it isnt going to get any better and if you ask her who the better lover is of course she will say you are and will tell him he is.
Not so much as to lie about it but to not hurt eithers feelings.
Think of it this way she had fucked guys before she meet you.
As long as you werent tapping sloppy seconds and she was clean then you shouldnt have a problem.
However if your ego wont let you cope then say fuck it and roll out.
anyways its just sex and the relationship is with you so either enjoy the fruits or say fuck it.
Later

ur fucking right, I was always straight up with her, and when I wanted her to be straight up with me she fucking lied, and Kronic king u weren't that blunt, u just told me ur opinion and I respect that Thanx.

[ScarlettCrush]

Has she has been lying for years and been with all kinds of people, or just recently had sex with someone else and told you about it? there is a big difference in the two.

[Porkchop]

Has she has been lying for years and been with all kinds of people, or just recently had sex with someone else and told you about it? there is a big difference in the two.

she has been lying from the beginning but hasn't been with all kinds of people, thank god, but tell me the difference in the 2 pls.

[ScarlettCrush]

the difference is, a lie she kept for years, or a lie she kept for a few days.

I think you get what you give in life, and this is a prime example. I hope you learn from it and grow.

[Porkchop]

[QUOTE=maryjanemama][
[b]If you have to know details, ask her what she liked about the other guys, but only if you can stand it. If it will kill you, don't ask,
Ok, I talked to her just now, and I got alot more details, but then my phone card ran out so I have to call her back in a few hours. But on a good note I feel a little better now. But I have 1 more issue, now I think of her like a dirty little slut when we talk about that shit, but in a way, it kind of turns me on to think of her like that. is this strange?

[maryjanemama]

[QUOTE=Porkchop]

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[b]If you have to know details, ask her what she liked about the other guys, but only if you can stand it. If it will kill you, don't ask,
Ok, I talked to her just now, and I got alot more details, but then my phone card ran out so I have to call her back in a few hours. But on a good note I feel a little better now. But I have 1 more issue, now I think of her like a dirty little slut when we talk about that shit, but in a way, it kind of turns me on to think of her like that. is this strange?

Nope, not at all!! Mr. Mary gets turned on by listening me talk dirty to other men when I work. I don't think it's weird at all.

Note: If he ever knew I revealed that, he'd probably kill me.

[RidingHigh]

ROFL porkchop i like u, someone who is confused by wemon and what to do about them more then i am! lol GL bro.

[RidingHigh]

oh yea Dirty Talk is a +, try bringing up LLamas in ur dirty talk it can be fun=)(ROFL)

[InhaleItALL]

If you can do it, no reason she should not be able to as well. Fair is fair.