Porkchop, I think the only reason she didn't tell you from the very beginning what she had done was because she knew how bad it felt to listen to the things you had done. Really I think she was trying to spare you all the details and how shitty they would make you feel. Then, she started to feel guilty, especially with moving in together gettting nearer and nearer, so she spilled her guts.

Just do what 9ski9 said, he's been there, do everything better than any other guy could. You obviously love her, you two will both get over it eventually.

If you have to know details, ask her what she liked about the other guys, but only if you can stand it. If it will kill you, don't ask, but, if you can, listen to her, you might learn some things about her that you never knew before. You can learn what really turns her on, and past the sexual part, you may learn how she really wants to be treated. Once you know what she likes, you will be the only one who can satisfy her, in bed, and in every other aspect.
maryjanemama Reviewed by maryjanemama on . Have Big Problem need opinions Ok here goes, although Ihate to talk about it. I've been seeing this girl for 4 yrs now, and she is from France and im American so sometimes we don't see each other for a couple of months at a time. Well she told me if I wanted to fuck other girls it was ok as long as I used condoms, well I told her I don't want her fucking other guys. I know if I can do it she can do it, but tha's not the point, for the 4 yrs whenever she asked me if I have cheated on her I told her yes,with who, and how many Rating: 5