Quote Originally Posted by Porkchop
So now all day everyday all I can think about is her fucking other guys and it is really hurting me inside...I can't quit thinking about the other guys...
When you move in with someone, shouldn't it be because you can't stand being apart? You are about to commit to someone and you have a huge issue between you. You need to step back. Live apart. Maybe make an agreement to exclusively date each other and take it really slow. Without the pressure of living together.

'Dude, we all go through with "The Roster". A roster is the list of people you've screwed. It's never easy. I still remember hearing my wife's roster. I listened, cringing, asked shitty questions, then got over it. She just wanted a number, but I needed details. Then it was over.

Your relationship has a chance if you can both look at those years as what they really were: living very far apart and living separate lives.