Have Big Problem need opinions

[Porkchop]

Ok here goes, although Ihate to talk about it. I've been seeing this girl for 4 yrs now, and she is from France and im American so sometimes we don't see each other for a couple of months at a time. Well she told me if I wanted to fuck other girls it was ok as long as I used condoms, well I told her I don't want her fucking other guys. I know if I can do it she can do it, but tha's not the point, for the 4 yrs whenever she asked me if I have cheated on her I told her yes,with who, and how many times. And whenever I asked her if she cheated on me she always told me no, and I believed her!! Well the other day we were talking on the phone and I asked her if she had ever cheated on me and she said no again, except this time I knew by her voice she was lying! So the next day I called her when she was sober and told her I knew she was lying and I wanted to know the truth. So after pleading with her she finally told me the truth which was yes. So now all day everyday all I can think about is her fucking other guys and it is really hurting me inside, but I cheated on her with so many more girls, it's not like we were married, but the fact that she lied to me for years just fucks me up! So we are supposed to be moving in together in 3 weeks, but I can't quit thinking about the other guys, I mean I still love her, but I can't stay with her if I can't get that shit out of my mind. please give me some opinions, but try to be gentle with ur opinions as I am really hurting inside.... Thanks Everyone.

Porkchop Reviewed by Porkchop on 06-04-2005. Have Big Problem need opinions Ok here goes, although Ihate to talk about it. I've been seeing this girl for 4 yrs now, and she is from France and im American so sometimes we don't see each other for a couple of months at a time. Well she told me if I wanted to fuck other girls it was ok as long as I used condoms, well I told her I don't want her fucking other guys. I know if I can do it she can do it, but tha's not the point, for the 4 yrs whenever she asked me if I have cheated on her I told her yes,with who, and how many Rating: 5

[mynameismike0]

maybe.... you should think about how it would have felt for her if she really hadn't fucked other guys but you got to fuck chicks all day long...

[Anonymous]

lmao

[makor01]

Yea if youre doing it then there is no difference. A cheater is a cheater.

[Porkchop]

Yeah, sure, I know what we both did was wrong, but like I said I still love the girl, but im not sure I could handle staying with her cause I can't quit thinking about it!

[mynameismike0]

pussy's pussy dude.


just kidding. follow your heart... thats what i do

[Anonymous]

ok so u can cheat on her and its all good but if she cheats on you its the wrong thing how can you say you love someone and cheat on them i rly dont get it

[mellow mood]

jesus fuck girls and she fuck boys whats the prob man its not complicated if u cant see each other for months why wouldnt she cheat??? its not like if u were married

[RidingHigh]

Go with ur heart, but you gota realize u did the same thing just move on now that ur moving in with each other it shouldent happen again. you both should talk about it and set some guide lines on ur sex lives

[Porkchop]

Go with ur heart, but you gota realize u did the same thing just move on now that ur moving in with each other it shouldent happen again. you both should talk about it and set some guide lines on ur sex lives

Give me an example of what u mean by "guidelines" I understand the concept, but I would like ex. pls.