sounds like your a good dad fengzi,my dad is the same way,he was a stonner in highschool almost the same as i am(both have long hair,both smart but kinda lazy at same time ) he has had to work for 20 years to get were he is now,he completely owns his own house(its 100% his) owns ywo cars he paid cash upfront for(his and my brothers and soon to be mine aswell)so i can totaly understand why he's worryed about me smokeing but he also knows i'm pretty resposable with it and dont do any stupid shit that would get me in trouble/arested he knows im fairly sensable and wont get into anything i cant get out of(i'm also increadbly scared of that whole prison/jail thing and really dont want to visit under any circumstances)but my dads still tokeing strong after quiting for a while to get everything squared away before he took another hit.

i say keep going down the same road fengzi sounds like you have nothing but your daughters best intrest in mind.hopefully when im a dad i can be like you and my dad