Help with parents

[bk17]

My parents are against smoking and keep yelling at me for smoking pot, everytime i get high they yell at me and call me a loser and shit, any ideas for making them understand I wanna keep smoking?

bk17 Reviewed by bk17 on 06-02-2005. Help with parents My parents are against smoking and keep yelling at me for smoking pot, everytime i get high they yell at me and call me a loser and shit, any ideas for making them understand I wanna keep smoking? Rating: 5

[FunkyMonkey]

Tell them it helps you deal with people calling you a loser when you smoke up..lol...just kidding.
Bud, I wouldnt react that harsh when my kids start tokin ( callin you a loser is low and nasty )but I would be concerned.They are just takin the tough approach to force you to stop.
The biggest concern I would have is "have I taught them to be responsible enough to use without overusing?" and that is my position. Lots of folks who are against pot are so because they have been taught to. If you want to smoke and keep things cool with your parents then it is your responsibility to show them that #1 its not the reefer madness junkie drug they think it is and #2 you ARE responsible enough to handle it.
So my advice is approach them when you are not stoned and they are not pissed off and ask them what exactly their concerns are and their issues with pot. Then make a point of showing them that their concerns are manageable. Educate them on pot intelligently ( use any number of online resources), dont let your responsibilities slip, dont overindulge when you need a clear head, keep your grades up etc.
Basically re-teach them that pot can be less harmful and more manageable than alcohol and its not going to ruin your life. Fighting and arguing will NOT prove this point to them and will fuel their views that pot is ruining their baby boy.
good luck and peace.

[slipknotpsycho]

there's not really to much to say to them...to me it sounds like they have an underlying problem with it somehow since they call you a loser and shyt i'd say they have some serious issues they need to work on....those are the type that are completely against it for some reason (some past expeirence has probably made them think that) and they don't know what else to say to you except things like "your are a waste of life, you will ammount to nothing and blah blah blah".....i really doubt you will get through their thick skulls ont his one sounds like they have their mind made up they aren't the type to change from what i can read.....all i can say is bear with it and do what you think is the best idea not what you want to do....if you are still under 18 it would be a bad idea to just do what you want because these are the type of parents that will call the cops on you and stuff atleast from what i can read and of course gereralizing parents with the same experiences.....so do what you gotta do to lay low until you move out becasue they still have (to a certain extent) have control over what you do and what happens to you...of course you can make your own decisions and face the consequences but the best would be to show them what they want to see and hide what they don't until you can move out.....if i was you (since i'm a smart ass) i'd show up the day i move out smoking a fat ass blunt and walk in their house and say "now what bitches!!!????" btw if this doesn't make much sense is cuz i'm drunk so drink a half a bottle of tequilla and read it again.....

[1e64102e]

Jus grab ma un tell her "yo, slut, i is gon' bash you face, dig, my son?" As fo yo pops, slap that beeyotch & put a cig out on his fuckin eyeball, big player. Beat da shee-yot outa dem mofos, den make yo fatha smoke yo pole? Den smoke a J an jus laugh at em. I is stoned, mother-motherfucker.

[FunkyMonkey]

um sure dude great advice from an intelligent source
(wtf???)

[1e64102e]

Oh, I was just kidding, Monkey; I am stoned, after all. Just don't smoke at home. I feel bad that the situation is so dysfunctional, but deal with it. It fucking brings me down to hear about people's fascist, idiotic parentage, and who needs it on a site devoted to finding new ways to get stoned and sharing funny experiences w/each other. There should be some kind of rule against depressing shit like politics and people who live with ignorant, puritannical scumbags with the education of some third-rate community college where they got a fucking A.A in theology. I say fuck them, and fuck everyone who can't tell their parents to fuck off and mind their own business. Too many fucking whiners. That's one of the major reasons its not always best to develop a regular relationship with herb when you're young- not because you're more likely to fuck shit up, but because there are too many social consequences of use- unless you can smoke it discreetly and not like a fucking pillock, mate.

One love, homie!

[1e64102e]

Also, if my father called me a loser, i'd straight bitch-slap that motherfucker. No shit: i'd shove my fist down his throat. He obvously thinks you're a pussy, and he's trying to fuck you like one. Time to hit him back, bitch. Do something constructive like headbutt him.

[slipknotpsycho]

ok i know where you're coming from ojn this cuz i was one of these kids but it does only make things worse....unless you get self emanicpated...(which is kind of hard around here you gotta prove that you are capable of supporting yoruself when there aren't too many job oppurtunities aroudn here) you are just screwed becaue legally you still have to obey your legal gaurdians (person who has custody, shoud your grandma have custody doesn't matter how much your mom and dad hate it) it's kinda hard to tell yoru parents to fuck off....i'd stand behind it cuz it's what i did and they eventually listen that way but I WAS LUCKY most parents won't listen to rebellion.....

[YabaYabaDoobie]

liek that dinosaur from Jurassic Park.

roar

[YabaYabaDoobie]

that was to what 1e64102e said.