ALso, I found the hardest problem with the part of sex, especially when it is your first time is you are doing it blindly. WHat mean by this is, especially if your in high school, your probably going to start out in the missionary position. IN this position you are so close to her you cant see whats going on down there. THis was my problem. I tied sticking it in while not being able to see and after about 20 seconds of embarassment (felt like 10 hours) she just said "let me do this," in a helpful and understanding tone. SO when you do fuck up shes gonna know it and she will most likely take the initiative to help u and her out lol.