Quote Originally Posted by Xerox Moon
We're in this life together, Marko. Been where you are and know what you're feeling. Best advice I can give you is to remember that your life must be lived for others, not yourself. Work for the good of your family, your friends and your faith, and life will fall into place. Work for yourself and your own selfish desires and it will all fall apart. Work for the good of others and life will reward you and make you rich.

If I learned anything in my 41 years on this earth, that's it. For most of my life I lived for me and it brought me heartache and despair. Once I started thinking about the welfare of others--family and friends--everything started to dial in.

Keep the faith, buddy. Live for something bigger than yourself and life will blow your mind with goodness.
Hmmm, I have lived my life, since I was a little girl, caring about others, doing for others, and giving others whatever I could give. I got hurt, in a worst way because of this. I was so selfless that as an adult, I really had to learn how to satisfy me, and give to myself sometimes. I think balance is what works. As much as you think of others, you also need to think of yourself too.

As far as what to do now? Go with what you've always wanted to do. Never wait for the "right" moment because the "right" moment may never come. Spend time with family...enjoy life. Smile often and make sure you make someone laugh or at least smile everyday!!!
Cheery Cherry Reviewed by Cheery Cherry on . For those 35 to say 45 years old I am 40 and recently I have been questioning where I was at, where I am and where I am going. I know it is middle age but I wonder if I should be doing more with my life. It is not like I think I am a screw-off, but I am starting to realize life is very short. I mean look at the death notices in the paper. Some young, some old and your entire life is written up in 3 paragraphs that no one really gives a crap about. So I feel like I am at a cross-road but don't know which way to go. Or Rating: 5