Damn nice to see some others who are 40+ on this board. No offense against you young ones, but I was beginning to feel like Lawrence Welk at an Eminem concert.

We're in this life together, Marko. Been where you are and know what you're feeling. Best advice I can give you is to remember that your life must be lived for others, not yourself. Work for the good of your family, your friends and your faith, and life will fall into place. Work for yourself and your own selfish desires and it will all fall apart. Work for the good of others and life will reward you and make you rich.

If I learned anything in my 41 years on this earth, that's it. For most of my life I lived for me and it brought me heartache and despair. Once I started thinking about the welfare of others--family and friends--everything started to dial in.

Keep the faith, buddy. Live for something bigger than yourself and life will blow your mind with goodness.