I'm also at that point where I'm looking at a choice of work vs. my family. I'm looking at it from the other perspective though. I have a job that allows me to spend time with my family, get home in time to have dinner with my wife and 2 y/o little girl, and have all my weekends free. It would sound great but my job is quite boring, has little to challenge me, and offers little,if any, chance for advancement. So do I risk my family time which I value incredibly and find a new job or just tough it out where I am? That's my big "what now?" question.
Fengzi Reviewed by Fengzi on . For those 35 to say 45 years old I am 40 and recently I have been questioning where I was at, where I am and where I am going. I know it is middle age but I wonder if I should be doing more with my life. It is not like I think I am a screw-off, but I am starting to realize life is very short. I mean look at the death notices in the paper. Some young, some old and your entire life is written up in 3 paragraphs that no one really gives a crap about. So I feel like I am at a cross-road but don't know which way to go. Or Rating: 5