this is a great thread, i'm 48 been with the same woman for 27 yrs. i've got two sons one is 26 the other 18. the oldest lives in new-york he got married last year, they are expecting their first child later on this year. the youngest still lives at home. i got hurt on the job about 5 yrs. ago, messed my back up. i've had back surgery but it's just as bad as it was from the start. so i don't work anymore. i work in my yard and garden. i'm like most of you, you got your good days and your bad. but over-all things is good