I'm also at that point where I'm looking at a choice of work vs. my family. I'm looking at it from the other perspective though. I have a job that allows me to spend time with my family, get home in time to have dinner with my wife and 2 y/o little girl, and have all my weekends free. It would sound great but my job is quite boring, has little to challenge me, and offers little,if any, chance for advancement. So do I risk my family time which I value incredibly and find a new job or just tough it out where I am? That's my big "what now?" question.