Do a google search for planned parenthood. They have a tone of birth control info.

I won't sleep with someone who isn't on birth control, but then again, I don't sleep with someone unless we are in a serious relationship. It's not just her choice, because if she gets pregnant, you are responsible too. If she can't take a pill everyday in order to protect her own well being, as well as yours, not to mention that of an unborn child(I'm assuming niether of you want or are ready for a child now), then she probly don't give a shit about you or herself as much as she should, and that's a huge red flag.

I realize it can fuck with your system, but she can work with her doctor to find one that works well for her with a minimum of side effects, most of which are temporary.

I can't wait until the FDA approves the male birth control pill cuz i'll be the first in line for that shit. Then i won't have to rely on someone else to take it. I'm not about to be no baby's daddy, and I can control my sexual urges enough to say no if a girl doesn't care enough about me to protect both of our futures by taking birth control. It's just not worth the risk.