There is no way around it youā??re going to rip her fucking heart out. I know thatā??s tough, first love breakups are the worst. The most you can do is be honest without being cruel. Whatever you do think long and hard about it and once you break up and realize that the grass isnā??t so green on the other side DO NOT go back to her and try and make up. That would be mean to toy with her. I wish you luckā?¦