i have a son and have never hidden anything from him. i don't smoke in front of him or anything like that, but he knows what it is. i don't think lying to your child about your drug consumption is a good idea, but that i just me. also i should note that i only use the weed and not the harder drugs. i know i don't want my son calling me a hypocrite when he gets older (or anytime).

i think honestly is the best policy and if you want a good relationship with your kid(s), it is reciprocal. i also think it is my responsibilty as a parent to inform my child about anything he has questions about. i would not want him to recieve misinformation from peers or media. this is a challenge at times but i figure we're both learning. i think each parent will find their own style that they are comfortable with.