ok heres a question....

[DonnieDarko]

I quit from the time my kids were born, till they were adults. When each were 18, I told them that they had to make their own decisions about lots of things in life, and I'd be here if they wanted/needed a voice of experience. I don't ask about their personal lives other than to ensure that they are safe and healthy.

[bssman]

my kids are 5 and 2. I don't let them know I smoke. If they asked me I wouldn't lie about it. I think they are too young right now. As they get older I'm sure we will discuss it. They are too young for a lot of things right now. I don't let them watch certain TV show for example.

[carmzilla]

i have a son and have never hidden anything from him. i don't smoke in front of him or anything like that, but he knows what it is. i don't think lying to your child about your drug consumption is a good idea, but that i just me. also i should note that i only use the weed and not the harder drugs. i know i don't want my son calling me a hypocrite when he gets older (or anytime).

i think honestly is the best policy and if you want a good relationship with your kid(s), it is reciprocal. i also think it is my responsibilty as a parent to inform my child about anything he has questions about. i would not want him to recieve misinformation from peers or media. this is a challenge at times but i figure we're both learning. i think each parent will find their own style that they are comfortable with.