ok u sound alot like me at this point. i have smoked very little starting since like november. when i get really high i am also very quiet and every1 else seems so happy. i think its just cause we dont smoke alot and it effects us more but what i learned is if im high and im still smoking its going to last longer then what i want it to and will lead to a more uncomfartable high. try only smoking a little bit don't no if you and your friends "throw 5s" but i don't really pick up myself more or less chip in for a bag, 4 heads on a 20 sack etc. but usually when i smoke half my share it will kick in 10mintues after i stop smoking (or when i get up and leave the area for some reason) it is always a much better high. keep me posted.