go to thailand m8. they love western males over there all shapes an sizes. i no what ya mean bout the ganj gettin in the way. i got a lovely girl so im lucky, but i aint got mates for shit. only time i hear from any one is when they want some weed, if i ant got any spare, guess what - no show even when they go, 'oh, tell ya what ill pop over any way, ant seen yer in ages!'