being put on medication isnt a solution?im sory you were raped as a child,hopefully he spent a good amount of time in a maximum security prison learning the rules of life prison style.

sure,i believe talking to a head doctor can help,but being put on CRAZY drugs like zoloft,tryleptol, and all the rest only causes more problems.i was part of the ritalin generation and about 4 years ago i was on 2 different types of drugs.i weened myself off them slowly and it still took about a year and a half for me to feel normal again.