I think sex is a very serious thing. I've done stuff with girls before, but through my own decision, have never actually had sex (I'm 18 btw). I just want to wait til the perfect moment. Just think of how ultimate it would be if you get married to a girl you REALLY love, and you both lose your virginity together. I find it kind of romantic lol. Almost all of my friends have had sex and make jokes about me because I never have. I think that's what alot of people view sex as, a step in becoming a man. I don't see it that way. I just want the first time to be perfect ya know. I kind of have the same view on sex as you Basher.