Here's an interesting topic, but I doubt a lot of you will connect.

I lost my virginity about a month ago to my current girlfriend after 5-6 months of commitment. We have a long-distance relationship and see eachother on average 2-4 times a month.

I'm 18 years old and was never as crazy about getting laid as most teens. Although my gf wasn't a virgin, she patiently waited until I felt ready to make that step (yep, 5-6 months )!
So we finally did and I was satisfied with how it went. The fact is, I personally consider sex to be possibly the most important thing in an individuals life. It is after all what we are put here to do, hence the reason I took so long to 'go there'.

Now that i've experienced it (and have so often then-on ), I don't get what it is in society.
Sexual insults, slang terms for sexual organs/practises, hardcore porn, the ridiculous innuendo in Carry On films. In my eyes it seems a beautiful thing is looked on in society as... well... A bit of a joke really.

I'd never, ever get turned on by vids on the net depicting a million cocks in one woman. What the fuck's up with that shit?
I'd never consider using any sexual slang terms, not even 'fuck' as a verb. I just think it's disrespectful, it doesn't seem right.
It seems to me sex is viewed nowadays as nothing but a dirty joke, not a natural, beautiful thing, and that contributes to associated problems in society such as underage pregancy and sexism. It was always something I was unsure of growing up (adding to my sensitivity on the subject).

Don't get me wrong you lot . I still collect FHM and use the word 'cock' as an insult . I just don't really understand how sex has become so desensitised now that I've experienced it for myself.

Anyone else see what I mean?
Button Basher Reviewed by Button Basher on . Sex: Desensitised in society? Here's an interesting topic, but I doubt a lot of you will connect. I lost my virginity about a month ago to my current girlfriend after 5-6 months of commitment. We have a long-distance relationship and see eachother on average 2-4 times a month. I'm 18 years old and was never as crazy about getting laid as most teens. Although my gf wasn't a virgin, she patiently waited until I felt ready to make that step (yep, 5-6 months :D )! So we finally did and I was satisfied with how it went. Rating: 5